When Life Gets Blurry. Adjust Your Lens.

Life, as it happens, can get overwhelming; sometimes, everything needs all the attention, and there are too many fires. Noise and smoke make the path ahead blurry.


I started focusing slowly on one thing at a time. What truly needs to be done now, and what can I do that makes today easier? Cross it off the list, Clear space... What can I do to make tomorrow easier?
The mess, the noise, and the smoke settle and push away when I'm FOCUSED on things to improve MY life.

Don't get me wrong, some days are HARD, and I'm still mad. So mad. It is truly unfair that I am the sole person bearing the consequences of their choices. Funny, she doesn't want people to know who she is because "it will look bad." She wasn't concerned when I shared her estate sale (while she was having an affair with my husband) on this page to help promote it, but now she doesn't want to be mentioned 😬😂🤣 See, I'm still mad ...

OK, focus, Heather ... Welcome to how my brain works these days. Focus - Future -Intrusive Anger - Focus - Future ..

My path isn't quite clear yet, but I can see that there is one. 💓